Recently I made a mistake, using the strict order when it was possible to manage a simple request.
I wanted to bring an order to the house before return of the wife from conference, houses were both boys.
I asked children to begin cleaning with their bedroom until I lay beds in the room.
When I returned in a few minutes, saw instead of the tidiedup room the clothes which are thrown out on a floor from a case.
Usually it is obedient children with whom it is easy to get on, and a short explanation and a simple request to move quite would be enough quicker..