One my acquaintance always in detail explains to the child why she forbids it something to do.
Jackie, do not touch the doctor's lamp because you will break it and the doctor will not see.
Jackie looks at a lamp with concern and mutters: The doctor does not see.
In a minute he tries to open a door on the street.
Mother warns him: Do not go to the street.
Jackie can be lost and mother will not find him.
Poor Jackie considers this new danger and mutters: Mother will not find it.
It is not necessary to speak to the child about so many possible misfortunes.. . . . . . Read more -->
The child can be sick or hit, and his susceptibility is not absolutely predictable at this time.
Sometimes the illness or pain can increase its ability to perceive attachment and tenderness, sometimes, on the contrary, it can hide even more deeply in the sink, as a snail.
We, parents, have to be constant on the alert to take that advantage which this opportunity gives us and to show love to the child when he is sick or suffers.
The child will never forget these precious specific minutes of emotional bond.. . . . . . Read more -->
Round it heated arguments though in those days perceived a problem rather as theoretical, but not as real inflamed.
However came true even more, than the author predicted.
Doctor Benjamin Spock, the glorified children's doctor, claims that the condition of modern society drives him to despair.
In the book the Best world for our children it says that it is grieved deeply by cruelty of the world where children daily face stains and violence where they should escape from bullets, but not to play a ball.. . . . . . Read more -->
Do not let the child to the pool as a large number of people uses it.
But it is excessive to forbid the child to see companions.
If you wanted to be so careful with it until the end of life, it should hold all life it locked up.
Doctors suspect that cooling and exhaustion do the person more subject to this illness.
In the summer children bathe much; remaining in water too long, they overcool.
It is not necessary to allow the child to be in water to blue in the face from cold and before that it will start knocking teeth.. . . . . . Read more -->
The child is held on the right track mainly by healthy education and confidence that parents trust him, but not those rules to which they teach it.
But are necessary to the teenager and governed, and consciousness that parents pay it enough attention to teach it these rules filling gaps in its life experience.
Rivalry with parents.
The intensity arising sometimes in the relations between teenagers and their parents partially is explained by natural rivalry.
The teenager realizes that the turn to conquer the world, to attract an opposite sex, to be the father or mother came.. . . . . . Read more -->
If the place of an inoculation is not protected by clothes, it is possible to paste by means of a plaster a sterile gauze small square over an inoculation place to protect it from combing.
But do not paste a plaster round a hand as it can interfere with normal blood circulation.
From that day when on a heatspot there is a gnoynichok, the child is not bathed in a tray, and washed until the crust disappears.
Though heavy reaction to an inoculation and complications happen seldom, it is necessary to show the child to the doctor if his hand is strongly inflamed, or it has a high temperature or if does not come improvements even for the th day.. . . . . . Read more -->